How To Break Ungodly Soul Ties In Life, Business, and Ministry

Sometimes God calls us to sit under a mentor for a specific season in our lives. This period of mentorship is an opportunity for us to be discipled by them in an area where they are uniquely called to minister to us through their wisdom and experience. The importance of such relationships is referenced in Proverbs 27:17, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."

However, there are moments when some individuals find it difficult to release the hold they have on this relationship. In those instances, it can be a struggle to let go, and that reluctance can hinder our own growth and the potential for new opportunities that God may be calling us to pursue. Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, "There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens."

Letting go of a mentor when the time is right does not diminish the value of the lessons learnt; rather, it can be a powerful act of faith. As we embrace this transition, we can find reassurance in Isaiah 43:18-19, which says, "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!" By allowing God to lead us into new relationships and experiences, we position ourselves to grow and thrive in ways we may not have imagined.

Not Everyone Can Guide You (or Be Your Mentor).

Leaders often hold on to you because they recognise and see your unique value to them and their ministry. This acknowledgement mirrors Proverbs 27:17. However, there are times when these same leaders may struggle with the thought of you succeeding or surpassing them. This can lead to a desire for control or recognition, reflecting the pride warned against in Proverbs 16:18. "Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall."

It is essential to remember that while God uses various vessels to train, equip, and prepare you for your journey, He has also appointed specific individuals to connect with you for a particular season. As stated in Ephesians 4:11–13, He has given some "to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers" to equip you for the work of the ministry.

In this pursuit, understand that there is no one-size-fits-all model to discipleship. God's unique blueprint for your life is as distinct as you are. As it says in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." If God leads you to seek mentorship from an individual on a one-on-one basis, embrace this opportunity wholeheartedly (Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages us to "trust in the Lord with all your heart").

However, when it becomes evident that it's time to move on, be willing to accept that God has elevated your calling. Transitioning is sometimes necessary, as stated in Ecclesiastes 3:1, and this includes mentor-mentee relationships. Your previous mentor may have served their purpose in your life, and recognising this can be an act of obedience to God's call.

Some individuals possess a specific mantle or grace to guide you in unique areas of your life, business, or ministry. As you navigate this journey, lean on Romans 12:6–8, which speaks to the diverse gifts we are given to serve God and others. Whether it's healing, business, or spiritual development, the ones God places in your path are integral to fulfilling your ministry call. Embrace this season and the growth that comes with it, trusting that each person placed in your life serves a divine purpose in your journey.

Releasing Emotional Connections

For some women, it may be necessary to let go of certain connections and move on to another mentor who is not only more qualified but also more equipped to guide you and take you to the next level in your ministry journey. This idea in Proverbs 27:17 states that surrounding yourself with those who have the right tools and insights is essential for growth.

Depending on your specific assignment and calling, you will find yourself increasingly drawn to those individuals who truly align with that divine mandate. 2 Timothy 2:2 reminds us, "And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others." Finding mentors who align with your purpose can enrich your journey in ways you may not initially recognise.

Embracing these necessary transitions can lead to profound growth and development in your spiritual and ministerial life. Isaiah 43:19 assures us of God’s transformative power: "See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?" When God calls you to shift your connections, it’s a part of the journey He orchestrates for your greater mission. Trust in His timing and direction, and be open to the new growth opportunities that await through these transitions.

Prayer For Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties

Heavenly Father,

I come before You today, recognising the power of soul ties and the impact they have on my life. I acknowledge that any ungodly connections that I have formed, whether knowingly or unknowingly, through relationships with a pastor or spiritual leader or past and present experiences, do not align with Your will for me. I renounce and come out of agreement with them right now.

In the name of Jesus, I ask for Your divine intervention. Your word in 2 Corinthians 6:14 reminds us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, Lord. I release and sever every ungodly soul tie that has bound me to negative influences of any kind to hinder my spiritual growth. I declare, as it says in Isaiah 10:27, that the yoke shall be destroyed because of the anointing.

Lord, I seek Your healing from any wounds caused by these ties—mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, financially, and ministerially. I claim the promise of Jeremiah 30:17 that You will restore health to me and heal me of my wounds. Grant me the strength to move forward in freedom.

Fill me with Your love and guide me towards relationships that are rooted in Your truth and purpose for my life, business, and ministry. I pray for discernment to recognise any future soul ties and remnants that may linger in my heart and mind. Your Word declares in Philippians 1:9–10 that my love may abound more and more in knowledge and all discernment.

Help me to forgive those who have hurt me and to let go of any bitterness or resentment towards them, as Ephesians 4:31–32 encourages. Lord, I decree and declare that I am free from everything that was done to me and does not serve the plans You have for me. I am released from the past and empowered to embrace the future You have designed for me.

Thank You, Lord, for the freedom and healing that are found in You. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.