How To Break Ungodly Soul Ties In Life, Business, and Ministry

Sometimes God calls us to sit under a mentor for a specific season in our lives. This period of mentorship is an opportunity for us to be discipled by them in an area where they are uniquely called to minister to us through their wisdom and experience. However, there are moments when some individuals find it difficult to release the hold they have on this relationship. In those instances, it can be a struggle to let go, and that reluctance can hinder our own growth and the potential for new opportunities that God may be calling us to pursue.

Not Everyone Can Guide You (or Be Your Mentor).

Leaders often hold on to you because they recognise and see your unique value to them and their ministry. Other times, however, they may struggle with the thought of you succeeding or surpassing them, or they may desire to receive the credit and glory for the things that God has done rather than acknowledging His work through you. While it is true that God uses a variety of people to train, equip, and prepare you for your journey, there are specifically some individuals He has chosen to connect with you for a particular season—whether that is one-on-one or through a group coaching program.

It is also essential to understand that there is no one-size-fits-all model to discipleship; what truly matters is God’s specific strategy designed just for you. If God prompts you to seek mentorship from an individual on a one-on-one basis, then embrace this opportunity wholeheartedly within the season that He has called you to receive this guidance. However, when it becomes evident that it’s time to move on, be willing to submit to the reality that God has elevated your calling higher, and the mentor you were once under is no longer the person suited to minister to you in this new phase of your journey.

Some individuals possess a specific mantle or grace to mentor you in unique areas of your life, business, or ministry. Others are called distinctly to assist you in your healing process, facilitate business development, or help cultivate and enhance the spiritual gifts you possess within your ministry call.

Releasing Emotional Connections

For some women, it may be necessary to let go of certain connections and move on to another mentor who is not only more qualified but also more equipped to guide you and take you to the next level in your ministry journey. Depending on your specific assignment and calling, you will find yourself increasingly drawn to those individuals who truly align with that divine mandate and are called to disciple you effectively in that particular area. Embracing these necessary transitions can lead to profound growth and development in your spiritual and ministerial life.

Prayer For Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties

Heavenly Father,

I come before You today, recognising the power of soul ties and the impact they have on my life. I acknowledge that any ungodly connections that I have formed, whether knowingly and unknowingly through relationships to a pastor or spiritual leader or past and present experiences, that do not align with Your will for me. I renounce and come out of agreement with them right now.

In the name of Jesus, I ask for Your divine intervention. I release and sever every ungodly soul tie that has bound me to negative influences of any kind to hinder my spiritual growth.

Lord, I seek Your healing from any wounds caused by these ties mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, financially, and ministerially, and the strength to move forward in freedom. Lord, fill me with Your love and guide me towards relationships that are rooted in Your truth and purpose for my life, business, and ministry.

Lord, I pray for discernment to recognise any future soul ties and remnants that may linger in my heart and mind. Help me to forgive those who have hurt me and to let go of any bitterness or resentment towards them.

Lord, I decree and declare that I am free from everything that was done to me and does not serve the plans you have for me. I am released from the past and empowered to embrace the future You have designed for me.

Lord, thank you!

In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.